


I'm
"talking" (via e-mail) with Barbara Nicholson of (appropriately)
Sun City Center, the first (again appropriately) recipient
of our Activist of the Month award. The prize for this award
is a free subscription to The Sun State Activist, a prize
to be shared among every visitor to this website. Barbara
will be known to many of this site's visitors as the erstwhile
B of the Dabonich e-mails as she forwards so many important
items of information from progressive websites. I have found
her postings to be of tremendous help in the development of
this website. The interview follows:
Jerry: Barbara, I wonder
if you would give us a thumbnail description of yourself.
You know: where and when you were born and grew up, your education,
occupations and family---that kind of stuff.
Barbara: I was
born on "Decoration Day" 1931 in Sidney, OHIO and am an only
child. My mother was birthright Quaker and my Dad raised as
Catholic, best parents in the world. We lived with my maternal
grandparents and my Uncle Kenny. My Grandma was a playwright
& monologuist and had me performing for church groups at age
four. She died when I was six and my career as an actress
was ended. First Ward, a two room schoolhouse was where my
formal education began and I continued on through the Sidney
Public Schools to graduate in 1949. The neighborhood "gang"
that met often in the alleys and garages was the other major
source of my education. My Dad had to drop out of school in
8th grade to support himself as his mother had died when he
was about seven and his Dad was the town drunk. He had two
brothers and two sisters and the boys were always envious
of the girls because they got to go to the orphanage to live
while the boys were children of the streets. Today we would
call them "At Risk" children. Although my Mom had dropped
out of school in 11th grade to work as a linotype operator
at the local newspaper she & my Dad both valued education
and they managed to send me to Wilmington College, a small
Quaker school in southern OHIO. My Dad trained himself to
be a "tinner" eventually having his own business as a sheet
metal contractor so I grew up in a pick up truck! I still
love pickup trucks to this day. I was able to obtain an assistantship
in OSU's School of Social Administration after graduating
from Wilmington. The summer between college and grad school
I was the first white recreation aide employed to work with
the Black population at Sciotovillage, the Girls Industrial
School of Ohio. My best friend David Nicholson followed me
from WC to OSU to get a degree in mechanical engineering and
before my first year in graduate school ended we decided to
get married and I dropped out of OSU. We married in March
of '54 and had daughters in '56, '59 and '61. We moved to
Indianapolis, IN in '62 and in 1970 I entered IUPUI's (Indiana
U/Purdue U at Indianapolis) Graduate School of Social Service
graduating with my MSW in 1972 and becoming a school social
worker in the Indianapolis Public Schools. I was also adjunct
faculty at Ball State University and IU Grad School of Social
Work supervising students in their field training. I also
worked for a CETA program focused on literacy and did about
two years as medical social worker at the IU Medical Center.
We raised our daughters in the Butler Tarkington area a wonderful,
diverse integrated neighborhood. We had invested in a big
old center hall colonial house there which at one time had
four generations living with us! My Mom, David's Mom, us,
our divorced daughter and her daughter and it worked because.....David
had remodeled and put in three kitchens! That house nurtured
our family for 33 years and was home to 4 dogs and 2 cats
too! The kids grew up, David retired from Eli Lilly in Dec
'93 and I retired from IPS in June '94. We sold the house
and moved to Florida full time in '96 first living in Apollo
Beach and then moving to Sun City Center 4 years ago.
Jerry:
Can you tell us how you got started in progressive political
work? Things that happened in the world, country, state or
your personal life...whatever? What made you start ticking?
Barbara: My Dad always kept up with things political, reading
the news, listening to the radio and eventually TV. Politics
were often discussed at our dinner table and my Dad's advocacy
for the underdog was transmitted to me big time! My Mom being
from a line of strong advocacy Quakers in Logan Co OHIO was
also instrumental in developing my interests. I learned just
about 10 years ago that my Dad's German roots were Jewish
turned Catholic (to save themselves??) and my Mom's Quaker
roots were Irish, County Antrim about which Frank McCourt
wrote "Angela's Ashes" so.....here I am the product of all
that. My peace movement passion was motivated when my cousin
Robert Steinle, my age, joined the army in '49 when I left
for Wilmington. He was soon declared MIA and eventually KIA
in Korea and the entire family was devastated and we have
never had closure on this death. His Dad had died of TB several
years earlier. Bob's younger brother, Timmy drowned several
years before that and grief overwhelmed us all. Aunt Clara's
one child left living is her daughter Gretchen who still lives
in Sidney OH. The tragedy of war and it's meaning at the personal
level hit me hard and my peace actions are my tribute to Bob's
memory.
Jerry: How would you describe the kind of progressive
work that you have done and continue to do?
Barbara: As a
teenager I worked to get school bond issues passed in Sidney,
OH. At Wilmington College I was the first white student to
have a Black roommate in the early 50's. I also helped to
integrate skating rinks, swimming pools, etc...in southern
OHIO. As President of Alpha Phi Kappa Sorority I read the
names of ALL the females of color on campus at pledge time
causing about 6 members to walk out (they came back) of the
meeting but, my roommate at that time was Black so what did
they expect? I also spoke at a college convocation panel about
"Is WC a Christian College" answering "NO' because of the
discrimination of the Greek organizations. As a school social
worker I advocated for so many people in so many ways there's
no time to describe. I will say that I usually spent half
of every school day in the hood working with families in need
and that I KNOW about the GOOD IN THE HOOD! My other hat,
the "Truant Officer" one kept me in close contact with the
Juvenile Court and working closely with probation officers
on many cases. Before I went to work I was active in the Woman's
International League for Peace & Freedom in both Columbus,
OH and Indianapolis, IN. Working with the PTA and neighborhood
organization as well as on political campaigns of Birch Bayh, Vance
Hartke, JFK, RFK, Jimmy Carter, Eugene McCarthy, Poor Peoples
Campaign, etc..... In Florida we got involved with the McBride
Campaign and organized the Tampa4Kucinich and SCC4Kucinich
groups. We helped with the Vets4Kerry group too and helped
start the current SCC Dem Club. Recently we have attended
about 12 days of the hearing in the Dr.Sami Al Arian case
and are appalled that he is not FREE and with his family again
since he was found innocent on 8 of the most serious charges.
The gov't plans to try him AGAIN and they didn't have a case
the first time! They hope they can sway/manipulate /mind control
another jury into making the decision the gov't wants....this
is disgusting. This hearing was a test of the Patriot Act
and the gov't does not want to lose.
Jerry: What do you see
as the most effective arenas for progressive action today?
Action with the Democratic Party or Progressive Democrats
of America, Green Party, direct action campaigns...whatever?
Barbara: Well, I registered GREEN in March of 2005 but have
not been active officially as a GREEN because I can't find
them! I don't think there are any others in SCC. The lack
of backbone and leaning centrist in the Dem Party alienated
me and I've found it therapeutic to be GREEN. We were with
Dennis Kucinich and his lovely British wife Elizabeth at the
Bonita Springs Dem Meeting (now that's a progressive group!)
a few weeks ago and Dennis declared himself a "Green Democrat"
and I like the sound of that. I do like the PDA but the DFA
is more active in the Tampa Bay region. Direct action campaigns
are good and I believe in the power of the Internet and so
am deeply involved in sharing info and networking in that
media. However, I'm needing to slow down a bit to give time
to the WINDHUNTER CORPORATION (maritime hydrogen generation
system- patent pending) that my husband David & I incorporated.
We are currently having a website prepared and hope to have
it available in early March to share with you and the rest
of the world.
Jerry: Anything else you'd like to say to the
people around the state, nation and world who might access
this site?
Barbara: Just that last night Jan 19, 2006 we were
privileged to hear Archbishop Desmond Tutu speak at the USF
Sundome. His focus was on the effectiveness of forgiveness
and the futility of revenge. He was astounding, humorous,
inspirational and adorable and I wish EVERYONE could have
heard him. He has given me hope which I want to pass on to
all of you that since South Africa was able to overcome apartheid
we know that the USA can overcome our own trauma with forgiveness
and hopefully, our own TRUTH & RECONCILIATION commission.
I also want to thank all those in the peace, justice and civil
& human rights movement for the wonderful network that has
sustained me for over 50 years. I couldn't have done anything
without YOU! PEACE! JUSTICE! EQUALITY! Join the ACLU, they
seem to be doing something about this awful mess we are in.
Jerry: Well, thanks very much, Barbara. I thought I knew you
pretty well but I know you much better now and I have to say
it's inspiring to realize from your narrative that one can
be an activist and still have an active life as a daughter,
wife, mother, social worker and all-around fine individual.
Like you, I'm a pre-boom (depression) baby and I'm happy to
count you among my best friends in that generation and as
a friend and inspiration for countless other people from generations
past and from those yet to come. Bless you!
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